Tuesday 16 March 2010

Neodigital Art

There have been many different schools of Art, this is the one for the 21st century. It is different and it’s open to everyone with a digital camera and a computer. 

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Thursday 4 March 2010

Psychology.

Psychology is all about what we believe and what we believe is who we are. We can be optimistic and think “it will never happen to us”; or pessimistic and expect the worse. It is healthier to be somewhere in between. Research in Holland suggested that stress produces the hormone cortisol and that in turn weakens our immune system and can make us ill. The hormone Oxytocin is described as the opposite, as the “love” hormone and can not only make us feel secure and good about ourselves but keep us healthy. We can’t change our beliefs, but others can. You can tell yourself a million times that you will be more confident but it doesn’t work. Then someone else says; “You look nice today” and we instantly have more self esteem. We all have the power to change the beliefs of others and give them health or make them stressed and sick. We can be at peace with our fellow man or at war; but war has a terrible price and that is often sickness.

You can say to yourself a 1,000 times. I have more confidence and more self esteem. Does it make any difference? Not at all! Someone says on the spur of the moment,”You look nice today”. Instant self-esteem boost. Other people change our beliefs. We can change their beliefs. so don’t always criticise others, they will criticise back and then you get into a destructive exchange of words that destroys self-esteem.

Changing the way you speak can actually make you money. It is true, you can have a mind set that just draw money to you. You tell other people that money is coming their way and this will be a lucky years and they should think positive. Buy that lottery ticket! This is the year you are going to win! It sounds good doesn’t it? That is because I’m changing what you believe, with the written word. If you paid me 10% of your future income I would make you as rich as I possibly could and it would work. I would make you a money magnet! It is possible! That is what psychology is about understanding that we can change the beliefs of others; give them more confidence, charisma, self esteem and the will to succeed. They have to want to succeed of course; some people appear to like being failures and hate anyone successful.

You also have to know what success is of course. It isn’t just about money, although money does help. It is about having people care for us and being well balanced and comfortable. We do tend to make better decisions when we are less stressed and shortage of money or bad relationships make us stressed and so do negative beliefs. if we live with someone who keeps putting us down, we lose confidence, it’s a normal reaction and it’s better to get out of such a relationship and let them destroy themselves if they want to. But why let them destroy you? They destroy your self-esteem, your health and your wealth. Why not go for relationships that increase self esteem, health and wealth? the same applies to your friends and family that you don’t live with. You can’t always cut of your family because they are negative, they may be depressed; but you have to recognise that and ignore the negative comments.

I often come across the term “toxic parents” to describe parents that constantly undermine their children’s confidence. We usually see our parents as always being right, even when they are wrong. They are role models and carry weight; and if they are out of balance they can make us the same. We often have to reject the ideas of our parents, rebel and seek our own way in life with diversity and freedom of thought and belief.

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Please check out this page where there are two videos that will tell you all about the Ring of Yellow heart Event running from 2010 to 2011 and a story is going around the world for children with cancer to add to. You can watch the story being read in the second video by a brilliant storyteller named Senni; please listen to it and give your support. These children just need you to be aware and to care, find the videos here.

Thursday 25 February 2010

My blogs...

 I have been writing a long time and wrote a novel last year that I hope eventually to get published. Recently I have helped friends with resumes or CV's and written on a variety of subjects. My tried to save the world with my blog on the global economic problems and that is worth reading. I argued in that blog that the East mainly produces hardware and the West content for everything from computers to television and it's out of balance. Anyway, why not read the blog? Find it here , just click that link.

Do you want success and change yourself and acquire some charisma? It could make you more successful in all areas of you life getting you more business, that elusive promotion or improving your relationships. I wrote about that elusive trait charisma too and how to acquire it one small step at a time. You can find that blog by clicking charisma ! Why not read it and see if charisma really is the key to success for you?

I also have my own website and I just use the sub domain supplied by my ISP although I hope to get a much more web space and do a large website to promote the novel I wrote last year. I may even sell the Ebook version of the novel myself from my own website. Maybe a publisher will want to read it or a literary agent who is looking for a new writer with something different. The whole publishing industry is changing as Ebook technology emerges with Ebook reader and tablet Pc's.

You can visit my little website that is getting a little old now and needs replacing and re-designing by clicking here. I have around 40,000 visitors so far in a few years and so it can't be that bad! It is of particular interest to people who want their own little website of course.

You will notice the advertising on this blog and on the others and on my little website. Why don't you have a go at writing a blog? Maybe have your own website? You can learn HTML, that's the code for doing websites by watching Youtube videos. You can also do a website with a Freeware program called NVU, that link will take you to the site to download that.

There are other blogs I have done, one in particular was about Click to Pay, that is an old one. It has proved popular though and years later people still read it and of course you can click to pay now with PayPal buttons but I would still prefer a button that says 10 cents and click to download something like an MP3. You can read click to pay by clicking here!

The most popular genre for blogs is of course money! How to get rich quick! How to make money! I have written blogs on making money but times change and they are a little old now. We have a had global depression, credit crunch or whatever you wish to call it since then. I will write about making money again of course.  I recently joined Zopa where people in the UK, USA, Japan or Italy can lent money to people who need to borrow or borrow money from people who need to save. It seems like a good idea. I'm not sure whether it will work in practise and so I have to do research and the best way for a writer to research is to try it!

I'll be writing more blogs and not just non-fiction but as a comedy writer I may treat you to some comedy and so why not subscribe and see what I'm up to?